"Experience is the best teacher"
Social media is the concept of interacting to other people online. It is called "Social Media" for the reason to communicate, to socialize online at any distance, anywhere, anytime right? I engaged with this concept since high school until now as a college student and I really had a good times in social media; like seeing your old friends, colleagues, variety of posts, photos of everyone and seeing everyone arguing on comment box regarding on an issue. Aside from that good times with the social media, I also had my worst times here. :(
Alright lets find out here what is that "worst times" mean. Sit back, read and enjoy everyone.
"Pleasure to Worst"

Well, one of my worst experience in the social media is engaging in a naughty chat site where you
can watch and view live ladies doing something arousal on their selves in front of webcams. That website requires you to have an account out there for you to become their member and for you to be able to view their live broadcast chatrooms by siging up in their registration page (I used my former facebook email address to be registered in that said chat site). And when the time that I already became a member of that website, I used to enjoy myself in that chatrooms, I felt pleasure and lust is rushing in my veins that time. But unfortunately, that pleasure I had before came to worst by the time that I cannot open my facebook account anymore (I had lots of important memories out there :( ) With that kind of experience, I learned a lesson and I really regret the act of temptation that I've encountered before and until now. It's really complicated.
"Social Isolation"

- Well, I thought social media tends us to be socialize to the other people around the world, but then I
was slightly wrong. I became social isolated, literally. I'd never go out of the house, I tend to be egoistic, because I'm just sitted in a chair in the front of a screen a total of 19 hours a day (5 hours is only for sleeping) just to play computer games and access internet with unpredictable purposes. With that act I was so depressed. I became addict, lazy and somehow close-minded person. Even my family was mad at me that time that I'm doing those stuffs. My relationship between my classmates and friends are all affected with my possession to the point that they're not recognizing me as their companion any more. I have no place to go at that time. I don't know what to do. I really regret this type of addiction that made my life ruined and a mess.
"Depression"

- We cannot deny the fact that social media provides us a lot of informations and we can learn from it
but the social media also lures us to isolation, loneliness and depression. There were many countless cases of persons with depression due to the "social media violence" And I was one of them. I was a victim of cyber bullying, that leads me to a very low self-confidence. With that, I was so depressed that in my mind at that time I treated minimal problems as a huge obstacle that need to surpass at all cost. I was so egoistic and closed-minded to the point that I attempted to commit suicide by hanging. But anyway, I'm very grateful to God, my family and also true friends that I'm still here on this universe, innocently writing this blog that could serve as a lesson for me of my forsaken past.
"Let's Hang-out"

- After I get up from my suffering before (depression), I was able to interact with my friends again
online, and it's a one of a kind feeling that there were at least few people who are very concern and has care to me in spite of negativities that I have. They're willing to accept me and I really love and value them a lot so much. So I hang-out with them; having fun with them at malls, movie houses, shopping, eating and celebrations. I quite have best times in my life with them. I learn so many things with the help of social media, on how to interact better to others. It also aided me to communicate easily to my classmates in terms of school works. I guess, Social media is really a huge place to hang-out by simple people like me
"Opportunities"

- Social media is not only for scrolling up and down, chatting, uploading/downloading, but also, for
many opportunities (jobs, careers, etc.). One of the best times I had in here is searching for a work as a guitar instrumentalist. Although at first, it's quite hard time but in a right social media strategy, I found one (thanks to a friend though). And now I play guitars at a school band where I can jam with my colleagues out there and learn from them.
Also I used to get in touch with some active groups that can provide some informational opportunity for me to learn about certain nation's issue (poverty, terrorism, economy, government,etc).
Social media provided me an opportunity to find my other relatives around the globe easily and I can approach them online if ever they're active.
Anyway, all in all, social media provides us "ups and downs " but it doesn't matter after all. It is up to us on how we used them as an aid for our progress or for destruction. Social media had bring a lot of damage to us people physically, psychologically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually but then we can ponder that social media had open the opportunity to humanity;to communicate and to interact. These network of media can bring us closer together as one nation, one world of love. And humanity must learn how to use this type of technology wisely or else, we face the destructive consequences of our unpredictable actions. Those worst times I had is a big lesson. And to create this article is an opportunity to inspire other people like you reading this work.
Okay that's rap baby.
Thanks for your precious time.
God bless. :)
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